Many times we hear from people why their loved ones aren't ready to move into an assisted living facility.

• "This is nice, but not for me..."
• "I'm not that bad yet..."
• "Why is it you think I need this place?..."
• "I'm not ready to give up my home..."
• "Who will take care of my yard?..."
• "What about my friends and neighbors?..."
• "Who will watch my cat?..."
• "You just want to put me away..."
• "I can take care of my self just fine..."
• "This is just for old people..."
• "Don't you love me anymore?..."
• "My neighbors will help me take care of things..."
• "Your father would be appalled if he knew your plans..."
• "The idea of this makes me sick..."
• "The food is probably terrible..."
• "Do you remember what happened to Aunt Sue?..."
• "My friend Martha was at one of these places and Oh my, what a time she had..."
• "This is really too much; you're just selfish..."
• "What did I ever do to make you do this to me..."
• "Just leave me alone; I'll be fine..."
• "There is no way I'm going to give up my freedom..."
• "If you're to busy to help me, I'll get someone else..."
• "The sooner you get me out of here the better..."
• "Just don't leave me here; I'm afraid..."
• "But I don't know anyone here..."
• "They don't seem friendly..."
• "They are all confused and senile..."
• "Do you think I'm Like them?..."

Have you heard any of these? If you have we can help you with finding an answer to help your loved one in the transition from their home to our home.